Give up goals!

I read something about Goals, don't have goals (yay, I hate goals), just pursue 3 things you can do within a defined time frame, those things can be goals too, but they don't have to be I'm going to be a wealthy person type goal. Just something you can get done within a focused time frame. i.e. do what it takes to be with the person you love who lives in another state.
I like this idea.